February 2nd 2026 Newsletter
Hey legend,
Welcome to our Trysted Soul newsletter.
Before we dive in — here's what's coming in this one:
→ The big announcement: My first book launches next Monday 9th feb
→ The vulnerable share: I've been struggling to settle in Peru (the truth)
→ The exciting stuff: Valentine's getaway, San Diego trip, Dr Joe Dispenza retreat
→ The invitation: Calling in the One Masterclass - February 10th
→ The deep dive: Why you can't call in the one until you become the one
Let's get into it.
THE BIG NEWS: THE BOOK IS HERE
After 6 years of writing, rewriting, and living the ending so I could finally finish it...
"The Meandering Journey H.O.M.E." launches this Monday, February 9th.
The Loner's Pathway to Ultimate Connection, Freedom and Love.
This is my story. Every wound. Every breakdown. Every breakthrough. Written like a novel in the tradition of Dan Millman's "Way of the Peaceful Warrior."
H.O.M.E. = Heart of Matter and Energy.
The core message: Home isn't a place. It's a frequency.
If you've ever felt lost - if you've ever searched for belonging in places, people, or achievements - this book is your map home.
I'd be so grateful if you grabbed a copy this week. And if it lands for you, a review on Amazon would mean everything. That's how we make this a bestseller and reach more people who need it.
THE VULNERABLE SHARE
I'm going to be honest with you.
I've been struggling to settle into life here in Peru.
Daily powercuts. Internet outages that make working from home a nightmare. The kind of infrastructure challenges you don't think about until they're interrupting every Zoom call and killing your workflow.
Stress levels have been high. Sleep has been rough.
And there's a part of me that wanted to hide that from you. To only show the highlight reel - the mountains, the Sacred Valley, the spiritual paradise.
But that's not real. And I promised myself this newsletter would be real.
The truth is: even healers have hard seasons. Even people who teach nervous system regulation have weeks where their nervous system is dysregulated.
The difference isn't that we don't struggle. It's that we have tools. And community. And the self-awareness to name what's happening instead of pretending it's not.
So yeah. It's been hard. And I'm still showing up.
That's the work.
THE EXCITING STUFF
It's not all hard though. Some genuinely exciting things happening:
Valentine's Getaway: I'm taking Samantha to a place she's always wanted to visit in the Sacred Valley. After everything we've been through building this life together - the chaos, the growth, the endless pivots - she deserves it. Grateful doesn't cover it.
San Diego Trip: I'm flying out February 15th for 3 weeks. Here's what's happening:
→ Podcast recording with my brother Stefanos Sifandos
→ Running SOULIFY in person (if you're in the area, let me know)
→ Dr Joe Dispenza's 4-day Advanced Follow-Up Retreat (March 7-10)
New Platform: We just moved all our clients onto a new streamlined platform. Better experience. Greater participation. Faster results. Always improving how we serve.
SOULIFY Expansion: Now running twice a week online and available for everyone. £22 per session. No commitment. Just healing.
Lots moving. Lots growing. Grateful for all of it.
THE INVITATION: CALLING IN THE ONE
Valentine's Day is in 12 days.
For some of you, that's exciting. For others, it's a reminder of what you don't have.
I've been on both sides. I see you.
Next Tuesday — February 10th — I'm running a free masterclass:
"Calling in the One"
Inside, you'll learn:
→ Why you keep attracting the wrong people (or no one at all)
→ The 3 blocks keeping love away
→ How to become a vibrational match for your soulmate
Plus you'll get the Relationship Quiz free just for showing up.
Reply "CONNECTION" and I'll send you the registration link.
Valentine's doesn't have to feel like this next year.
THE DEEP DIVE: WHY YOU CAN'T CALL IN THE ONE UNTIL YOU BECOME THE ONE
Here's what nobody tells you about finding love:
You can't attract what you're not.
You can swipe on every app. Go to every event. Say every affirmation.
But if your nervous system doesn't feel safe to receive love — you'll push it away.
If you're carrying your parents' relationship patterns — you'll repeat them.
If you haven't healed the wounds that make you feel unworthy — you'll attract people who confirm that story.
The work isn't finding the one. It's becoming the one.
3 Things Blocking You From the Relationship You Want:
1. Your nervous system doesn't feel safe to receive love.
You've been hurt before. Abandoned. Betrayed. And your body remembers — even when your mind has "moved on."
So it pushes love away before it can hurt you again. It finds flaws in good people. It creates distance when things get close.
Not because you're broken. Because your nervous system is protecting you from a threat that no longer exists.
2. You're trying to call in the one before you've become the one.
You're looking for someone to complete you. To fill the void. To make you feel worthy.
But you can't attract what you're not. Whole attracts whole. Healed attracts healed.
If you're looking for someone to save you — you'll attract someone who needs saving. And that's not love. That's codependency with better lighting.
3. You're carrying your parents' relationship patterns.
The love that was modelled to you growing up? It's running your subconscious.
The fights you watched. The distance you felt. The conditions that were placed on affection.
You learned what love looks like before you could spell your own name. And unless you consciously heal those patterns — you'll keep recreating them.
The Path Forward
The good news? All of this can be healed.
Not through more swiping. Not through another dating strategy. Not through manifesting someone to fix you.
Through the deep inner work:
→ Regulating your nervous system so you can receive
→ Healing the mother and father wounds that distort your experience of love
→ Becoming the person your future partner is praying for
That's what we do in BE THE ONE.
And if you're not ready for that level of commitment — start with the masterclass.
"Calling in the One" — February 10th. Free.
Reply "CONNECTION" for the link.
BEFORE YOU GO
Two things:
1. Get the book. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GFXNDVYR Monday, February 9th. Let's make it a bestseller together.
2. Join the masterclass. Reply "CONNECTION" for the registration link. Tuesday, February 10th. The day after the book drops. Perfect timing.
Thank you for being here. Thank you for reading. Thank you for doing this work — even when it's hard.
Valentine's Day 2026 could be the last one you spend alone.
But only if you do something different.
Let's make it happen.
Speak soon,
Mark
P.S. — The Healing His Rejection Masterclass (Father Wound focus) is coming February 24th. More on that soon...
